Decisions Decisions

Today I have a choice to make...it appears on the surface to be a rather simple choice. In truth, however, it is a choice about who I am, who I want to be and how I want to live my life. It is also a choice about what I am willing to accept in my life and what is just unacceptable. If I had just myself to be concerned about, I would not hesitate...no choice necessary...the choice was taken out of my hands by the actions that preceded it. But I am not alone...and that is where this becomes complicated. By choosing to accept the unacceptable in order to provide...what sort of lesson does that teach the person I am trying to provide for?